Discover the powerful leadership lessons I learned as a 1 1/2-year-old crossing the Mexican-American border with my parents. Please read about the experience in the previous post.
Here, I’ll share their incredible journey and the invaluable insights it taught me.
Embrace Courage and Determination: Witnessing my parents’ bravery in the face of adversity taught me the importance of taking risks and staying committed as a leader.
Seek Help without Hesitation: Successful leaders understand that seeking assistance is a sign of strength, not weakness. Learn from my parents’ decision to ask for help when needed.
Show Gratitude: I am forever grateful for the sacrifices my parents made to provide me with a better future. As a leader, it’s vital to appreciate and acknowledge those who contribute to your success.
Envision Your Path: Take inspiration from my parents’ unwavering pursuit of a better future. Leaders must have a clear vision that guides their actions and motivates others.
Harness Optimism and Inspire Hope: Through the hardships, my parents never lost hope. As a leader, maintaining optimism and instilling hope within your team is crucial, especially in challenging times.
As a 1 1/2 year old, I was carried in my parents’ arms as we crossed the treacherous Mexican-American border. Despite the dangers and risks, my parents were determined to provide me with a better life. However, their journey was not without challenges. They narrowly escaped being caught by Border Patrol agents, but their determination never faltered. Instead, they made the brave decision to seek help for me, which led to an unexpected encounter with a stranger who provided them with crucial assistance. It was this man who dropped us off in Pauma Valley, where my life in the United States began. Looking back on this incredible journey, it’s impossible not to feel grateful for the sacrifices that my parents made for me. Their unwavering dedication to building a better future for their family is a testament to the human spirit and the power of hope.
As someone who has spent 25 years working for the Employees Club of California, I am often asked about what makes me qualified to hold the position of CEO. It’s a fair question – after all, I started as an entry-level employee with no experience. But along the way, I’ve learned some valuable lessons that have allowed me to grow and succeed in my career. In this blog post, I’d like to share four of the most important lessons I’ve learned in my 25 years at the Employees Club of California.
Lesson 1: Be grateful for what you have, rather than dwelling on the things you don’t have. Throughout my career, I have learned the importance of being grateful for the opportunities and resources I have, rather than focusing on what I lack. This mindset has allowed me to approach challenges with a positive attitude, and to be more creative and resourceful when finding solutions.
Lesson 2: Save the people rather than saving the numbers. Of course, financial performance is important to any business. But I firmly believe that what truly matters is taking care of the employees who make the company successful in the first place. Taking care of people means investing in their development, valuing their contributions, and creating a culture of mutual respect and support.
Lesson 3: The path to success includes learning, growth, turmoil, and change. No one achieves true success without going through some difficult times and learning valuable lessons along the way. It’s important to embrace discomfort, challenge your assumptions, and keep an open mind to new ideas, even if they deviate from your original plan.
Lesson 4: Support networks play an important role in success. No one can achieve success entirely on their own. Whether it’s mentors, colleagues, or family members, having a support network can make all the difference during times of uncertainty and difficulty. A word of encouragement, a fresh perspective, or a helping hand can provide invaluable support during times of stress.
As someone who has spent 25 years working for the Employees Club of California, I am often asked about what makes me qualified to hold the position of CEO. It’s a fair question – after all, I started as an entry-level employee with no experience.
-Robert Larios
As I reflect on my 25 years at the Employees Club of California, I realize how grateful I am for the opportunities and challenges I’ve faced along the way. These four lessons – gratitude, investment in people, learning and growth, and support networks – have been the cornerstones of my success. I hope these lessons can be of help to others who are also striving to succeed in their careers, and I look forward to continuing to grow and learn as we move forward.
As we celebrate Good Friday, followed by Easter and reflect on our lives, let us remember the power of redemption and self-growth within each and every one of us! No matter your beliefs, this is a day for embracing self-improvement. We can choose to use our mistakes as opportunities for growth and renewal—a chance to accept ourselves deeply and attempt to become arguably better than who we once were. As we venture through this journey of life, let’s commit ourselves to mindful effort and perseverance in order to uncover each individual’s personal source of redemption. With passion, dedication, and optimism, may every single person strive to be their best selves both today and always!
Growing up, my Dad Rafael Larios had always been fascinated by the stories of César Chávez. He admired his courage and unwavering commitment to justice. When he was 14 years old, Dad had the opportunity to hear Chávez speak in California and witness firsthand the power of his message. Deeply inspired, Dad decided that he wanted to make a difference too – so he dedicated himself to working endlessly in the fields for over half a century. As time went on, Dad’s hard work eventually paid off as he became a successful avocado and citrus farmer in Pauma Valley. He often said that it wouldn’t have been possible without César’s guidance and encouragement – something which kept him going even when times were tough. From long days out in the field under scorching sun, through sleepless nights tending to crops – Dad never once gave up hope or lost sight of what drove him forward; Justice for all farm workers no matter their situation or background. My father’s story teaches us that change is not only possible but also achievable if we stay true to our values and never give up on our dreams – this is why I think it is important that here in California we commemorate César Chavez’ legacy each year; To remind ourselves how one person can leave such an indelible mark on society with their tireless efforts – much like my Father did!
On National Doctor Day, I am reminded of the doctor who changed my life. As a 12-year-old with severe scoliosis, Dr. Laurence McKinley performed a 6-hour spinal surgery that required the installation of Harrington rods. Today, decades later, I still have them and recognize that my body is limited in what I can physically do. But thanks to Dr. McKinley, I am leading a happy and successful life.
I am grateful for doctors like Dr. McKinley who not only save lives but change them for the better.
–Robert Larios, President & CEO of the Employees Club of California
It was a tough realization as a young boy, knowing that physical activity would forever be forbidden. But Dr. McKinley taught me an important lesson – that success comes from using our minds, not just our bodies. Thanks to him, I am able to accomplish things I never thought possible. So on this special day, I am grateful for doctors like Dr. McKinley who not only save lives but change them for the better.
In California we commemorate the enduring legacy of César Chávez, whose unwavering advocacy for fair and just treatment of farm workers continues to inspire generations. It is a day to remember those whose lives were directly touched by his profound work, like my Dad Rafael Larios, who has been working tirelessly in the fields for over half a century. At just 14 years old, my Dad had the opportunity to hear Chávez speak and witness firsthand the power of his message. Driven by a deep sense of purpose and a commitment to justice, my Dad continued to farm and eventually became a successful avocado and citrus farmer in Pauma Valley. Today, as we give thanks for Chávez’s remarkable dedication to fellow farm workers, my Dad’s story reminds us that change is possible, and that the tireless efforts of one person can make a difference in the lives of many.
Leadership Notes:
The legacy of César Chávez serves as an inspiring reminder that strong leadership is possible when driven by a deep sense of purpose and commitment to justice. It also reminds us that one person’s actions can have a powerful effect on the lives of many – change is possible when we are fearless in the pursuit of our passions and goals. We must use this example to motivate our own leadership efforts and keep striving towards positive change in ourselves, our communities and our world.
On Sunday of last week, it would have been 90 years since Bud Bradford was born. His gentleness and kindness were unique, and his teachings were filled with relevance and meaning. Even though he’s not around anymore to see how far I’ve gone in life, I am grateful for the life lessons he gave me that have shaped me into who I am today. As my mentor, friend and second father, he gave me the insight that university education, hard work, empathy and love can go a long way in achieving success – a truth which certainly held relevance in my journey of growth. From my wedding day all the way until becoming CEO of the Employees Club of California, all I wanted was for him to be here with me as I celebrated these milestones. I miss him more everyday but carry his contribution with me everywhere I go.
Having a person to mentor you is an incredibly valuable asset for each individual’s growth and success in life.
-Robert Larios
Having a person to mentor you is an incredibly valuable asset for each individual’s growth and success in life. For me, this mentor was my dear friend, Bud Bradford. His presence guided me from 1986 until the year of his passing in 2012, nearly a quarter century’s worth of support. Throughout our years together as mentor and mentee, Bud was able to provide me with immeasurable invaluable insight into the seemingly mysterious journey known as life.
In Photo (Left to Right): Brad Bradford; Robert Larios (Me); Bud Bradford
Growing up in Pauma Valley, California, I had the privilege of being mentored by a good friend Bud Bradford. He spoke highly of his time at Stanford and the overall college experience he lived and how his actions enabled him to achieve great success in building his business later in life. His words were an inspiration for me; they made me think deeply about what my future could be if I took ownership of it. I knew that to get there, I would have to plan, be determined, resilient and patient, and work hard.
Shaping our own destinies requires us to take control over our lives by setting clear goals, working hard with determination and resilience, and exercising patience throughout our journeys towards achieving success! My mentor Bud Bradford inspired me through his story about shaping his own journey while at Stanford University which ultimately led him down a successful path in life. Do not forget that no matter what struggles may come along our paths we must continue pushing ourselves forward by remaining focused on our goals until we reach them – taking ownership of one’s life starts within each one of us!
Growing up in Pauma Valley, the Christmas season was always a special time of year. From the smell of the real pine tree and decorations to the presents that appeared under it, I was struck by the energy and spirit of this magical season. Looking back on it now, I am so grateful to my parents for making these memories possible. As an adult, I have been inspired to pay it forward by giving back to families in need during this special time of year.
My parents made sure that my sisters and I had the best Christmas we could hope for—from decorations around the house to presents under the tree with our names on them. It was so exciting! Even when I was young, though, I realized that not everyone had these same experiences—not everyone had a real tree or gifts with their name on them. This motivated me as an adult to give back in whatever ways I could during Christmastime.
As an adult, I have been able to donate money and resources to charities who provide toys and meals for those who are less fortunate during the holiday season. Through organizations like Toys For Tots and Club Angels, there are countless opportunities for those with means to give back so that others can experience some of what I did as a child—and even more! It is truly incredible how much people can do if they come together in unity with one purpose: helping others enjoy a little bit of what they experienced while growing up.
Gratitude makes us appreciate the many gifts life has to offer and keeps our hearts open.
Robert Larios
The Christmas season has always been filled with fond memories for me growing up—from decorations around the house to presents under the tree with our names on them—and now as an adult, I am deeply grateful for all those moments spent with family and friends over the years. This gratitude has inspired me over time to help provide similar experiences for others less fortunate through donations, volunteering and continuing my work at the Employees Club of California throughout this special time of year. Gratitude makes us appreciate the many gifts life has to offer and keeps our hearts open. By doing so, we can all make sure that everyone gets a chance to experience some joy during this holiday season!
Robert Larios 